A few weeks ago, after being pressed to tell my sister about my adenomyosis, given the direct hit, such as it were, "So what's the big secret?" And when I told her what was going on, then decided to share she, was contemplating going in for ablation. One would assume that would have been sufficient to shut her up, given she's trying to compare notes, journeys or what... I give up.
She knew I was going in on 3/13 to get my fibroid (or polyp?) removed surgically. Yet haven't heard from her, not a peep, not a call or text to see how it went or how I'm feeling. Not that she needs to, but yanno, that's what I'd do if I *CARED*. So just like my gastric bypass which she had volunteered to come up and help me with the post op, which came and went without so much as a call to see how the surgery went or if I needed her help, the fibroid removal came and went without a call of concern or whatevs.
Yet, as I mentioned in a previous post, she did manage to call and leave a voicemail about Easter. I wait a few days to text back, "Can't make it for Easter. Depending on weather and pain, I might come down for Mother's Day." Reply got back, "Why are you in pain?"
Srsly?
I don't even want to engage anymore. It's just too fucking tedious.
What pain?:
Herniation in my neck
Diminished disc space in low spine
Congenital twist in hip
Damaged ACL in both knees
Heel spurs
Arthritis all throughout
Carpal tunnel (really a big problem gripping a steering wheel for 2.5 hours each way)
OH AND THE SEARING LOW BACK PAIN FROM THE ADENOMYOSIS YOU WERE TRYING TO HAVE A BONDING MOMENT OVER? That right there is what I want to scream at her. But it's not worth it. Things are stressful and tenuous enough as it is. Makes me very stabby thinking about it.
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